Woman 1: I use a percolator obviously, because that's what we use in Italy.
Woman 2: Mhh.
Woman 1: And somebody told me that it burns the coffee, ...
Woman 2: Oh, right.
Woman 1: because the water's boi... boiling.
Woman 2: So is that carcinogenic?
Woman 1: I don't... I hope not. I don't think so.
Man 1: Oh yeah, yeah. Anything... anything burnt.
Woman 3: Which one of your exes would you like to go back and sleep with?
Group: *Laughter*
Woman 3: Ooooh. Uhh, I think that... (Audio cut) ...probably my first proper boyfriend from when I was about 16, 17. Because, I mean, we didn't know anything then. We were really young and I'm just a lot better at sex now...
Unknown man: Oh!
Woman 3: And...
Group: *Laughter*
Woman 3: I think he probably would be too, and I wonder if that would have changed anything... if that makes sense?
Woman 2: But would you keep him as a 16 year old?
Group: *Laughter*
Woman 2: *Blows on dice* Okay, here we go! Huuu! Oh!
Groups: *Sounds of excitement*
Woman 2: Okay. *Clears throat* Which colleague or professional contact would you like to apologise to? Do you remember when I had that secretary job after uni? Uh, I just couldn't handle when... getting all of these invoice and like contracts on my desk, 'cause I just didn't know what to do with them. Um, and eventually it just really started to stress me out. So I just used to shred everything.
Man 1: *Laughter*
Man 2: What!?
Woman 3: You didn't!
Woman 1: *Laughs* That really bad!
Man 2: What!?
Woman 2: I did it. I just... I just... I just...
Woman 3: Did you ever get found out?
Woman 2: No, because I... I left the job after three months, yeah.
Woman 1: Oh my god!
Woman 2: And also I acci...
Unknown man: *Laughter*
Woman 2: ...I acci... had letters... I also emailed everybody on the mailing list, saying: "I'm only here for the money. I'm going down to book the tickets to Vietnam now". But I meant to send to my cousin, but I sent it to every professional contact. I... Yeah, no. I do... I do feel bad actually, because... it was a family friend who got me the job.
Woman 3: I think you should have gone... apologised way sooner, actually.
Groups: *Laughter*
Woman 3: Now!
Man 1: Who is the most unlikely or unusual personal you've masturbated to?
Unknown Woman: Oh god!
Man 1: It was probably, yeah... uhhh, a teacher. Umm, I can't.. don't know if I can even remember her name.
Woman 1: I think you can. I think you know! I think you're pretending you can't, ey?
Man 1: Umm... Mrs. Warnick.
Group: *Laughter*
Man 2: Mrs. Warnick?
Man 1: Who... umm, just, y'know, when I was still finding, finding my feet... masturbation-wise.
Group: *Laughter*
Man 2: In what way do you think you might be described as bad in bed by an uncharitable person? The fun never stops.
Man 1: (laughter)
Man 2: No I'm joking. My mind tends to wander.
Man 1: (laughter)
Man 2: So I might start thinking about work.
Woman 2: Work?
Woman 3: Has someone called you out for that?
Man 2: Yes, many times.
Woman 1: What did you do? Just just paused and went and answered an email?
Man 2: Well, because if I have a thought, then I need to attend to it immediately. So... I'll be like (noise), so I just need to send this email, send this text or take this call.
Woman 2: No. That's terrible.
Man 2: So yeah.
Man 1: How long are you having sex for that you can take time off in the middle?
Man 2: Well, this does say uncharitable, so yes. It is going on for a while.
Man 1: And it's good to know that I can call you at any time and I'll get through.
(laughter)
Woman 2: What about you does your partner not understand?
(laughter)
Woman 2: Nothing! You understand me completely.
I use a percolator because and was successful at using it and somebody told me that it burns the coffee because the water's boiling.
So is that carcinogenic?
I don't know, I hope not.
I don't think so.
Which one of your exes would you like to go back and sleep with?
Probably my first proper boyfriend from when I was about 16, 17, because I mean we didn't know anything then.
We were really young and I'm just a lot better at sex now, and I think he probably would be too, and I wonder if that would have changed anything.
But would you keep him as a 16 year old?
Which colleague or professional contact would you like to apologize to?
Do you remember when I had that secretary job after uni?
I just couldn't handle getting all of these invoices and like contracts my desk cuz I just didn't know what to do with them, and eventually it just really started to stress me out, so I just used to shred everything.
What? You didn't. That's really bad. What?
I just.. I just.. Did you get found out?
No, because I left the job after three months and also I also emailed everybody on the mailing list saying: "I'm only here for the money- I'm going down to book the tickets to Vietnam now", but I meant to send it to my cousin but I sent it to every professional contact.
Yeah, no I do feel bad actually because it was a family friend who got me the job.
I think should have apologized way sooner actually.
Who is the most unlikely or unusual person you've masturbated to?
Oh god.
It's probably, yeah, a teacher. I don't if I can even remember her name.
I think you know..
Mrs. Warnock
Who, just, you know, when I was still finding my feet masturbation-wise.
In what way do you think you might be described as bad in bed by an uncharitable person?
The fun never stops.
No I'm joking.
My mind tends to wander.
Might start thinking about work..
Work?
Yeah...
Has someone called you out for that?
Yes many times.
What did you, just pause and went and answered an email?
Well I cuz if I have a thought, then I need to attend to it immediately so I'll be like yeah, so I just need to send this email, send this text or take this call.
No. That's terrible.
So yeah.
How long are you having sex for that you can take time off in the middle?
Yeah, well this does say uncharitable so you know, it has been going on for awhile.
And it's good to know that I can call you at any time and I'll get through.
Uh, what about you does your partner not understand?
Nothing! You understand me completely.
Great, next question.
I think we're pretty good.
But I don't know, something that's come up recently: I do feel that yeah when I'm flirting I am known to be quite a flirty person and obviously I've got a list of male friends, and I think sometimes you get really possessive.
Really possessive.
No, sorry, I don't mean it like that, but but you know, I think it's important for my sense of autonomy, my sense of potency to, you know, feel desired by more people than just you.
Yeah, I think that's it.
I do find it uhh I don't really have lots of female friends, maybe that's it and I just like I guess just find it weird to know where the line is.
I'd like if you flirted more.
I mean not with...
You can flirt with me.
No.
Should I flirt with you?
Yeah.
But would make me feel like you are actually desirable.
Mmm, wow.
Oh, God.
I know what you mean though.
Good.
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0:0 I use a percolator because that's what we use in Italy and somebody told me that it burns the coffee
0:5 because the water's boiling. Is that carcinogenic?
0:45 Which one of your exes would you like to go back and sleep with?
0:52 Probably my
0:54 First proper boyfriend from when I was about 16, 17
0:58 Because I mean we didn't know anything then. We were really young and I'm just a lot better at sex now
1:5 and...
1:8 I think he probably would be too, and I wonder if that would have changed anything. Would you keep him as a 16 year old?
1:32 (laughter)
1:33 Which colleague or professional contact
1:36 would you like to apologize to? Do you remember when I had that
1:40 secretary job after uni? I just couldn't handle getting all of these
1:45 invoices and like contracts my desk cuz I just didn't know what to do with them um
1:49 and eventually it just really started to stress me out, so I just used to shred everything.
1:55 What? You didn't. That's really bad. What?
1:57 I just.. I just.. Did you get found out?
1:60 No. Because I I left the job after three months and also I actually
2:4 and this is... I also emailed everybody on the mailing list saying: "I'm only here for the money-
2:10 I'm going down to book the tickets to Vietnam now", but I meant to send it to my cousin
2:14 But I sent it to every professional contact. Yeah, no I do feel bad for that actually
2:19 because it was a family friend who got me the job. I think should have apologized way sooner actually.
2:25 (laughter)
2:33 Who is the most unlikely or unusual person you've masturbated to? -oh god
2:40 It's probably yeah a
2:44 teacher I don't if I can even remember her name
2:48 I think you know..
2:55 Mrs. Warnock
2:60 Just you know when I was still finding finding my feet masturbation-wise
3:6 In what way do you think you might be described as bad in bed by an uncharitable person? The fun never stops.
3:15 No I'm joking. My mind tends to wander.
3:20 Might start thinking about work..
3:21 Work?
3:22 Yeah...
3:23 Has someone called you out for that? Yes many times.
3:27 What did you just pause and went and answered an email? Well I cuz if I have a thought?
3:32 then I need to attend to it immediately so
3:35 I'll be like yeah, so I just need to send this email send this text or take this call
3:39 No. That's terrible.
3:41 So yeah
3:43 How long are you having sex for that you can take time off in the middle?
3:47 Yeah, well this does say uncharitable
3:50 so yes this going on for awhile. -And it's good to know that I'm I can call you at any time and
4:2 And what about you does your partner not understand?
4:9 Nothing! You understand me completely.
4:20 But I
4:24 No something that's come up recently I do feel that yeah when I'm flirting I am known to be quite a flirty person
4:32 And obviously I've got a little male friends, and I think sometimes you ah you get really possessive
4:40 Really possessive
4:43 Sorry I mean.. but but you know and I think it's important for my sense of
4:48 autonomy, my sense of potency to, you know feel desired by
4:53 More people than just you
4:57 Yeah, I think that's.. I do find it uhh I don't really have
5:3 lots of female friends, maybe that's it and I just like I
5:8 guess just find it weird to know where the line is
5:12 I'd like if you flirted more. I mean not with... -You can flirt with me -No -Yeah should I flirt with you?
5:20 But would make me feel like you are actually desirable.
5:41 At the School of Life we believe in developing emotional intelligence
5:45 To that end we've also created a whole range of products to support that growth
5:50 Find out more at the link on the screen now
